I was at the facility this week and to be truthful was unsure on the "do's and dont's". If someone could be so nice as to fill me in a bit I would appreciate it. I spend most of my time just sitting by myself on the common area bench just watch the video screen and feeling myself. Lots of guys just walking around in their towels. I want to be able to please someone and maybe get pleased myself. So, if you could fill me in I would appreciate it. Thanks, cjb
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If you’re open to texting let me know
If you have any ideas let me know
Maybe we can arrange a meeting but I don’t normally “just do things” with someone I’ve never met. Being married I need to be very careful.
I guess it’s not too bad for being 72. Some think us older guys can’t do anything. Wrong.
Let me know if Thursday is good. between 3 and. 4.
Ok. Once you have an idea of what will work we can go from there.
I don't work, retired
I could be free by mid-afternoon. What times and days work for you? No rush here.
What time are you one working? Will have to let you know.. Unsure of my availability those evenings but I would like to try and make it work
I think you might have a good idea just need to work out details.
I read your profile. In a similar situation here. Maybe we can have a sauna and shower and see where/if anything goes. LMK what you think.
When I come across someone I'm interested in playing with, for example like yourself sitting in the video room "feeling himself" , I find the best way to get things going is to just simply engage is a lite conversation "hello, how's your day?", "you enjoying yourself?" "is there anything I can do to make it more enjoyable" etc.. Some guys say "no thank you" (I know "Amber" is not everyone's cup of tea! Hehehe) I don't get put out or feel embarrassed I just say something like " well I hope you have a great afternoon" etc. When a guy says "Sure", "Id love you to" etc. I go to him, slowly move to his cock and ask. "May I" and get to work.
On the flip side I'll have guys sitting there playing with themselves, make eye contact with me then glance back down at their cock etc.. This is usually a sign that they want to play. I will approach him, motion towards his cock and ask "May I". Usually I'll read it right and the guy will say something like "please do" etc. But some times I read the glance wrong and he may say "no thank you" , shake his head no, or maybe cover up his cock. Again I don't feel put out or embarrassed, I just say something like. "Enjoy your day" and move on. I think it's really as simple as "you won't know until you ask" but being sure to do it in a non aggressive polite way?
It sounds like your very new at this type of play. We all were in your shoes at one point and I really understand being nervous but once you go a few times and get more comfortable with the the place it will become much easier. There is no better place to explore than the Red Gym. The last piece of advice I will give it not to set the bar too high, just relax enjoy yourself and take what comes.
I hope I didn't ramble too much. LOL I hope this helps and please feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions! Have Fun Amber