We are open to most! We do as I mentioned above much prefer some correspondence to get to know each other beforehand. We fully understand that many men prefer to just jump onto the bed. That’s fine for them, not so fine for us. Simple variation in tastes and not at all intended otherwise. To each his own and all that. So if anyone is interested write and at some point make it possible to correspond initially here and at an agreed point move to something private as opposed to this open forum.

If you might become interested in a May-December couple of massage artists, let us know! We are not into everything you mentioned, the fisting in particular as we think it too dangerous, everything else could be a better than good match, your needs to our abilities. We tend to be more serious than most here being demisexual men. That’s why we like to share info about each other first. Better results almost a guarantee with that approach. INTERESTED? Just write back allowing for some lag time initially.

So help us out! How about a useful profile? How about a way to contact you? Does your wife know or are you keeping secrets? That's intended to help men here know whether they want to connect with you and run the risk of being cited in a divorce process. There's lots for anyone in your shoes to be concerned about. Why should I care? I do because I often enough have to deal with the aftermath. So it's better to at least TRY to think things through. One other point, if you are not out to your wife, even if you are -- you really don't need to bring home any unwelcome microscopic guests to share the marital bed. That tends to be something of a relationship killer.

So providing some information just might attract someone instead of trying to be a pig in a poke! That's an expression out here in the boonies and not at all any kind of a negative comment.

Yes and I will call ASAP and keep trying until we connect. thank you very much! I appreciate your trust!

As you can see unfortunately this system is not geared as far as I know for private chats but instead everything is published for any member to read. If you don't object to that how about picking either a text number or telegram I'd or Google chat ID? Whatever you are comfortable disclosing to all members.

Well I cannot get into the city very often at all. This is why I prefer to meet and greet in a public place, share coffee or what have you, and take things from there

In a manner of speaking, yes I am responding to your post, but I am not physically at Reds. I DO enjoy meeting other members, and am genuinely interested in meeting in person, and NOT necessarily interested in impersonal sex. Does that work for you?

Got a telephone number?

So far so good. My "problem" is that I also enjoy some of the, let's say "vanilla" flavored things too so would you share that way or are you a solely bottom kind of guy? Also are you open to a more private communication?

Contact me directly say by your text number, we can meet and if it works I can do my best to get us to Reds plus.

Can we work out pvt texting? For me Reds is some distance and some other things makes it difficult.

What I wrote earlier, hopefully you would consider also doing.

Oh and final point — as used to be said openly on TV: “It’s not how long you make it…it’s HOW you make it long!”

By the way, once things are between men who know each other, some then prefer to meet at Red’s.

Lots of men prefer to conduct sexual things in a far more private setting which as far as I know, this message board does not allow. I am certainly one of those. IF you would like to meet someplace private, and if it goes well it could easily become a regular thing then make it possible. I suggest posting a number for text messages. That has worked in similar circumstances in the past. That way, men like me can contact you directly and privately.

Great, now if you can let’s work out a place to meet.

Also, I have a partner who sometimes likes to join in. He likely will be with me, if that appeals to you.

I don’t get to Reds very often but if you would enjoy a more private way of communicating and a face to face meeting on Marshall St where you are comfortable let me know. I would be interested in your considering something more ongoing while you are at the university or college you are currently attending. As you might gather from my screen name I am mostly out. Very interested in you from what I know to date.

I woke up Around six in the evening, we will try!