Ok, so I have some experience as a bisexual and have been a top a few times but never a bottom. I do want to go for it though. I have no problems with nudity or any of the fun stuff. Also, I am a smoothie. My problem is that I see "buff" pics on the Red Gym site, and I am not that. I am your average older guy, not in shape, with grey hair, and a bit overweight. So, my question is - How out of place am I going to feel if I should go? Thoughts?